Flirting with Danger?
Love is in the air during this week of Valentine’s Day, which has us thinking about dating safety. When gearing up for a magical first date, it’s important to sprinkle a little safety into the mix. A dreamy date can quickly turn into a less-than-fairytale scenario if you’re not careful. So, before you dive headfirst into a new romance, keep these essential safety tips in mind to keep from flirting with danger.
1. Meet in a Public Place
Always choose a well-lit, populated location for your date. Avoid secluded areas, especially if you’re meeting someone for the first time. Restaurants, coffee shops and entertainment venues are great options.
2. Let Someone Know Your Plans
Tell a friend or family member where you’re going, who you’re meeting, and when you expect to return. Consider sharing your live location with a trusted contact through your phone.
3. Arrange Your Own Transportation
Drive yourself, take a trusted rideshare service or use public transportation rather than relying on your date for a ride. This ensures you can leave at any time if you feel uncomfortable.
4. Keep an Eye on Your Drink and Food
Never leave your drink or food unattended, and don’t accept drinks from strangers unless you see them being prepared by a bartender. Drink spiking is a serious risk that can happen on a date or when with a group.
5. Trust Your Instincts
If something doesn’t feel right, trust your gut. You don’t owe anyone an explanation if you decide to leave early. Your safety is the priority.
6. Use a Safety App
Consider using a personal safety app like bSafe, which allow you to discreetly alert emergency contacts if you feel unsafe.
7. Avoid Sharing Too Much Personal Information
Be cautious about sharing sensitive details such as your home address, workplace or financial information, especially early in a relationship.
8. Have a Backup Plan
If something goes wrong or you need to leave unexpectedly, have a backup plan in place. Keep emergency contacts saved in your phone, and have cash or a credit card on hand.
9. Be Cautious with Online Matches
If you’re meeting someone from a dating app, verify their identity beforehand. A quick video call can confirm they are who they say they are. Watch out for red flags like refusal to meet in public or inconsistent stories.
10. Know Emergency Resources
Familiarize yourself with local emergency contacts, including nearby police stations and crisis hotlines. Having this information handy can be helpful in case of an emergency.
Dating should be about enjoyment, love and connection, not wondering if you’re flirting with danger. By taking precautions, you can have a safe and enjoyable experience!
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